When a divorce is handled in a litigious manner, neither side "wins." If your family is finding divorce as your only option, Mediation is a far better option than Court.
Families who end up litigating their divorce instead of looking into alternative dispute resolutions/divorce alternatives, often quickly discover that they are giving up their power to navigate their personal lives and the lives of their children to a judicial officer who is trying to make the best orders possible under the incredible volume of cases they hear each day.